EDITOR’S NOTE: The following story comprises spoilers for “Die My Love.”
Back in May, Lynne Ramsay debuted her newest movie “Die My Love” on the Cannes Film Festival. Within days, she was telling critics they’d her movie all wrong.
The Scottish director’s adaptation of Ariana Harwicz’s 2012 novel stars Jennifer Lawrence and Robert Pattinson as a pair tearing at one another in rural Montana whereas elevating their six-month-old son. Journalists singled out Lawrence’s eye-catching efficiency as Grace, a spiraling author, and disbursed varied psychological well being diagnoses: she had postpartum depression, postnatal depression, psychosis or bipolar disorder. Ramsay called “the whole postpartum thing” “bulls***t.”
Six months later, she will’t imagine she phrased it that approach, however she stands by it.
“People love to sit and have their little pigeonhole, just to make it easy to say in a couple of words: ‘It’s about this,’” she advised NCS in a latest interview. “And I don’t think (the film) is just about that. It’s about their marriage breaking down, her being isolated, her loneliness and her creativity drying up, the sex drying up, and everything kind of imploding. I think it’s too reductive just to say it’s ‘that.’”
It’s a curious paradox that as an artist, the two-time BAFTA winner felt the necessity to intervene and say what her movie was about to protect area for interpretation. But that’s Ramsay; she’s not one for neat explanations, on or off-screen.
The writer-director is just not prolific – it’s been eight years since “You Were Never Really Here” starring Joaquin Phoenix as a tortured mercenary rescuing trafficked kids. Before that, there was “We Need to Talk About Kevin” (2011), “Morvern Callar” (2002) and “Ratcatcher” (1999). Each film Ramsay releases is one thing of an occasion amongst cinephiles who recognize her work, and her followers contained in the {industry} embody Lawrence and Martin Scorsese.
Scorsese, who serves as a producer on “Die My Love,” learn Harwicz’s novel as a part of a e-book membership and shared it with Lawrence. The actress – one half of manufacturing firm Excellent Cadaver alongside Justine Ciarrocchi – reached out to Ramsay in regards to the thought of adapting and directing. “She just kept emailing me,” Ramsay recalled. “They were so super keen.”

“It’s quite a surreal novel. It’s non-linear. It was not an easy adaptation,” she added. “I had to find my own way into it before totally committing … I said to Jennifer, ‘I’m going to try it my way. Let’s see how it goes,’ and they really loved it.”
The filmmaker was rapidly enchanted by Grace. “She’s pretty unapologetic and a bit childlike at times,” Ramsay mentioned of the character. “She’s frustrated at all these different things. I hadn’t really read a part like that … It’s not like you’re trying to engage sympathy (for her).”
Ramsay and fellow scriptwriters Edna Walsh and Alice Birch decamped the story from France to the US, added some humor and fleshed out the position of Grace’s companion, Jackson. Lawrence took the lead, including Pattinson as Jackson, Sissy Spacek and Nick Nolte as Jackson’s mother and father, with LaKeith Stanfield supporting as a mysterious stranger. Then they all set to work forward of manufacturing in Calgary, Canada.
“I got (Lawrence and Pattinson) together as early as I could, got them doing expressive dance classes and crazy things … making them a bit embarrassed and getting over that embarrassment,” mentioned Ramsay of their preparations.
On the primary day of filming, she had the duo carry out the chaotic intercourse scene that kickstarts the film – “a bit risky, but it totally broke the ice,” she remembered. From there on, she tried to shoot the movie as chronologically as potential.
In the movie, Grace’s unravelling takes virtually no time at all. Frequently deserted by Jackson, she lashes out in all instructions, together with herself. She gripes, “A real mom would have baked a cake” for his or her son’s half-birthday, then snaps at a cashier (“Find everything you were looking for?” says the employee. “In life?” Grace sneers). She believes Jackson is having an affair (not with out proof) and she’s crippled by boredom, protecting the newborn up for firm and spilling breast milk on the clean pages of what may need been a brand new e-book she was meant to be writing. Meanwhile, her well-meaning mother-in-law gently says of motherhood, “Everyone goes a little loopy the first year.”

It’s been nicely publicized that Lawrence was pregnant along with her second youngster whereas filming. On display, the a part of Grace seems bodily demanding: She wrestles Jackson, destroys a toilet, masturbates with a knife in hand and runs by a glass door, to call only some moments within the movie. She’s additionally ceaselessly nude. Lawrence was recreation for every little thing, mentioned her director. “I don’t think she wanted to be wrapped in cotton wool,” mentioned Ramsay.
The director mentioned her course of is to instill self-discipline within the entrance finish of pre-production and enable for experimentation on set. No hitting marks. Takes ran lengthy, pushing the actors to improvise.
“Jennifer was inside the character, and you never knew what to expect, which is lovely,” mentioned Ramsay.
“I said, ‘Walk up to the window,’ and she walked up to the window and licked (it) like a wild animal trapped. I was like, ‘Wow.’”
Sex, or lack thereof, is a uninteresting ache for lengthy stretches of the movie, as Grace’s want goes unfulfilled by Jackson. “She’s a sexual animal,” mentioned Ramsay. “She wants to be with him and he’s rejecting her, and she feels invisible.” That perspective, she added, is one seen extra in males than girls in cinema, and a key side of the novel she needed to keep up.
A confluence of things results in Grace being dedicated by Jackson and separated from her youngster: a wrenching flip in a movie filled with stunning moments.
I shared with Ramsay how I’d first watched her film at an early morning press screening on the Cannes Film Festival. It was the primary time I’d been away from my child, I mentioned, and it was lots to soak up. I couldn’t think about what it was like for the actors – each new mother and father themselves – to reside out their components.
“I always feel sorry for people who see my films at 8am,” mentioned Ramsay, grimacing barely.
But the director desires to supply audiences some hope – significantly in regards to the movie’s ending.

Though Grace returns to the household fold, their reconciliation is uneasy. “Enough,” she ultimately says, earlier than strolling into the forest and setting her pocket book, the forest and probably herself ablaze, as Jackson follows behind.
Even right here, the filmmaker sees it as a love story. “It’s not a literal ending,” Ramsay pressured. “I think it’s her character setting her work on fire, the world on fire, and him still wanting to be with her.”
While Lawrence is getting Oscar buzz for her daring work within the film, Ramsay has a little bit of trepidation across the extra industry-tinged aspect of issues, together with field workplace and award campaigns.
“You always want people to go and see your movie, of course,” she mentioned. “But to me, it’s about whether the film’s around down the line. That always tells you the film’s got staying power. If people are still watching your films 20 years later, then you know it’s still relevant. And I think I’ve been lucky enough with some of my films that people still want to watch them.”
“To me,” she added, “that’s the real deal. Not prizes. It’s whether it lasts the test of time.”
“Die My Love” is on vast launch within the US and UK, and distributed by MUBI worldwide.